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22 May
My husband and I are very good about splitting household responsibilities. We each do what is most convenient and practical for our individual schedules. My husband makes dinner most nights since I am teaching during dinner prep time.
But, since having shoulder surgery a couple days ago, he is now a one armed man. I’m not counting on much help in dinner preparation over the next month while he heals. So I am setting out on a quest to find great crock pot recipes and super quick meals. As I find recipes, I will share them here. I imagine I’m not the only music teacher who must juggle meal preparation with teaching!
This is a favorite of ours. It may be the easiest crock pot recipe in the world.
Pork Tacos
Put a pork roast, a can of diced chiles, and almost a whole jar of salsa (we really like the mild Wal Mart brand of salsa for this recipe. It’s cheap and it soaks into the pork very well) in the crock pot. Let it cook for half the day. Shred the pork about an hour before you serve it so it can soak in the salsa even more. Put the meat on tortillas with whatever taco toppings you like! Yum! We’ve also put this pork over rice when we are out of tortillas, and it’s very good.
24 Apr
I recently had the lovely experience of a tution check bouncing. This is the first time I’ve had this experience, and I was surprised to see that my bank also charged me a $7.00 “paper processing” fee. (I’m naive, I guess!).
I knew I would have to confront the parent who bounced the check, but I desperately hate these kinds of confrontations. It’s times like these when I wish I had a secretary to handle this kind of stuff. (Wouldn’t that be nice? Instead of saying that you can’t give a makeup lesson because Susie wanted to play with her neighbor, you could just turn the phone call over to your cold hearted secretary to enforce your rules).
However, since I lack that coveted secretary, I turned to the Faber Piano Teaching Forum, a fantastic place to get wonderful advice from great teachers. One teacher suggested I send an email to the parent and even gave me a great script. I tweaked it just a little, and here it is.
Just a quick note to let you know that I just received your check for April’s tuition back from my bank. Will you please bring cash to (Child’s Name) next lesson, including the bank fee of $____ that I was charged.”
There was no awkward confrontation, and the situation was taken care of perfectly. Now I just need to figure out how to word a bounced check fee in my policy…
17 Apr
I’ve heard of many teachers who have a sort of “script” when they are talking to a prospective student on the phone. I thought that was a great idea, because without one, I often forget to mention important items. I also forget to ask very important questions (like, “Do you have a piano in your home?????”).
So here is my “script.” Tell me if you think I’ve missed something terribly important! Do you have a specific set of questions and items you discuss each time?
7 Apr
Things I have tried that have NOT been effective-
What has been successful for you in getting new students? What has been unsuccessful?
11 Mar
Like I’ve talked about before, I teach from home. So it really irks me when the first student of the day shows up for lessons early. I feel like I have to answer the door because they know I’m home. And then, I feel like I have to start teaching because, well, what else can I do?
In my studio policy, it states that students should remain in their cars if they arrive more than 5 minutes early. Most of my students are pretty good about doing that, because they realize that when they come in any earlier, they are interrupting another student’s lesson. But it’s those darn first lessons of the day that I just don’t know what to do about!
I am thinking of posting a note on my door that says something like this:
Piano Students: If you arrive for your lesson early, please remain in your car. I will not open my door until your lesson time begins.
Is it too harsh? Is it inappropriate? What are your thoughts? What have you done to fix similar situations?
10 Feb
I’ve only recently started doing interviews before accepting new students. I have one coming over this week, and wanted to throw out the questions: 1. Do you interview prospective students? and 2. What do you do or talk about in your interview? and 3. Do you do anything at the piano?
24 Nov
I’ve been so occupied with getting our Christmas recital (in two weeks!) ready. I’m worried because I don’t think I’ve given my students enough time to really perfect their pieces. There just isn’t much time between a Halloween recital and a Christmas recital. I think I will skip the Halloween recital next year.
So anyway, I just thought it would be fun to hear what other people are doing for Christmas recitals. What pieces are you excited about? Is anyone having a recital in an interesting location? I tried to find a nursing home for ours, but couldn’t find one with a piano! I was actually shocked. But then…I procrastinated my search, so I’m sure I could have found one if I had been looking sooner. (Just another lesson for next year…) What treats are you serving? Is anyone having ensembles perform? Are you, as the teacher, performing? Are you requiring memorization?
Wow, that’s a lot of questions! But please comment~ I love to hear from other music teachers!
13 Nov
In yesterday’s post, I was asked what I do with my baby while I teach. I thought I would share my answer in today’s post.
I took a month off after my baby was born, and spent that month getting her on a good sleep schedule. Not everybody likes to schedule their babies, but for me it was imperative. I read On Becoming Baby Wise by Gary Ezzo and Robert Bucknam for help in this area. (Greatest book if you are serious about getting your baby to sleep through the night!)
Because I had gotten her on a schedule, it was easy to teach when she was little, because she slept right through everything. As she’s gotten older and needs less naps (aarrgghhh), I have come to depend on things with restraining belts. First it was the bouncy seat, then the activity center, and now the high chair. These work wonderfully (now), but I know I will have to adapt to something new very soon since she is now becoming an expert walker!
I still make sure she sleeps through the first hour of lessons. Even if she wakes up early, she stays in her crib and plays. I will then let her crawl/walk around during one lesson, and by the last few lessons, she is restrained. My husband comes home during the last lesson and takes over.
It’s an evolving system, and not nearly perfect enough. Any tips from anybody else?
5 Nov
Ok, we’re going to try this again. A while back, I attempted to start a discussion through comments, but it never really took off. (I do appreciate those who made comments, however!) Perhaps my topic wasn’t too exciting or discussion worthy, so I am going to give it another go with this question/topic:
If you had a student who wasn’t making progress, (couldn’t remember notes, couldn’t play a piece that had been passed off before, couldn’t count, etc.) would you drop that student or just work harder on your own teaching? I don’t think I’m qualified to answer this question, because I’ve only had one student like that, and she moved away before I ever had to make that kind of decision. However, without having had the experience, I think I would always focus my efforts on better teaching if I had a student like this. I don’t think I could drop a student unless there were some serious behavioral problems. What would you do or what have you done in the past?
Now, let’s get a good discussion going here! Leave your comments and come back to respond to others!
26 Oct
I love the feedback I get on this site. Everyone has such great experience and offers helpful tips. I hope to get some good feedback on this topic.
How do you handle refreshments at recitals? I recently had a recital and asked for volunteers to bring refreshments. Only one parent volunteered, so I spent a lot of time baking cookies the day before (as well as setting up, printing programs, and all the other things involved in a recital). I felt like I should have required instead of asked for volunteers. However, after asking other people their opinion on this, I found that some people feel the teacher should provide refreshments since the parents are paying for lessons.
What do you think?