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One of my “gifted and terrifed of failure“ students told me he is getting very very bored.  Knowing I could be setting myself up for an unpleasant response, I still decided to acknowledge his feelings and ask him why.  He responded that all his pieces in the lesson books are too easy.

To be honest, they are too easy for him.  He can sight read well beyond the level that he plays.  But I don’t think it is wise to skip levels because he needs to understand all concepts.  I fear that if we skip a level, he will miss something important that will hinder his ability to play a much more difficult piece.  And because he tends to balk at challenges, I am not willing to let him skip concepts and fundamentals. 

Since that is too difficult to explain to an 11 year old, I chose to liken piano to baseball, his favorite subject.  Maybe you can find a way to use a similar comparison with a similar student.

I told him to imagine that he started baseball this year for the first time, and could “knock the ball out of the park” 9 times out of 10.  At the mention of his favorite sport, I could practically see the baseball diamonds glittering in his eyes.  I then told him to imagine that even though he could hit like a pro, he couldn’t catch for anything.  He didn’t like that part of the analogy, and told me he could most definitely catch like a pro.  So we had to change the character in this imaginary story to “a friend.” 

I then explained that the friend would have to start from the beginning- from scratch- to learn all the fundamentals of baseball.  I asked him if he agreed, and he did.  He would never be a great ball player without the fundamentals.

It’s the same in piano.  We have to move through the lesson books so that we can get the fundamentals.  In the meantime, I will give him harder pieces that will challenge him.  But he must get through the basic stuff before we can leave the lesson books in the dust.

He completely understood what I was saying, and completely agreed.  (something that surprised me to no end- because he is NOT one to agree with me on ANYTHING!)