Relax, Share, and Laugh!
15 Apr
We’re gearing up for our spring recital here. I always get excited to see my students perform. Most of them get incredibly nervous (of course), but end up positively glowing after a job well done. Recitals are a huge rush for me! (Even with all the stress).
Planning this recital is bringing back memories of my first studio recital as a teacher. My students were all brand new- the longest any had been taking lessons was probably about 3 months! Every single one of my 9 or 10 students was in the primer level. I borrowed folding chairs and thoroughly cleaned the house so I could cram all of my students and their parents into my tiny living room. I spent hours making refreshments. I arranged for a babysitter since my husband had to work. I agonized over what to wear, and spent hours making sure I looked dressy and professional since I would be meeting several parents for the first time (i had only met one parent of each child at that time).
And after all that preparation, the recital, refreshments, and pictures were over in less than 15 minutes! Each student’s piece took 30 seconds or less, and there was very little “dead air” for walking back to seats since the seats were all right next to the piano! I even played a part of my piece twice because I was so nervous, and that STILL didn’t add much to the total time!
It was quite possibly a little ridiculous, but it was also a lot of fun. Even though my students were all fresh little newbies, I think it was great to get them out performing in front of people. They had something to be proud of and were able to receive lots of praise and encouragement!
Have you ever had a ridiculous recital? What about a disaster of a recital?
4 Responses for "Recital Memories"
My first recital was held at my home (1983!). I only had about 6 or 7 students at the time. Two students were (not surprisingly) late, a brother and sister. We couldn’t wait any longer so we began – and completed – the recital. While we were enjoying the refreshments, the two stragglers arrived, so everyone took their seats again, and listened while they played. Not a disaster, but not exactly what I’d planned.
I have had some funny moments in more recent recitals. One little girl fell asleep while waiting her turn, then refused to play; one boy played his entire piece in the wrong hand position (a very beginner); once, a 13 year old boy botched the ending of his piece, jumped up and said loudly, “close enough!” and bolted to his seat!
Thanks for stirring up some memories!
In the 2-3 years after “Titanic” came out, every little (and big!) girl in my studio wanted to play the theme song, “My Heart Will Go On.” That was okay, because for many kids it meant really stretching themselves.
The big problem came at recital time, when EVERYONE wanted to play it! Somehow I whittled it down to (gasp!) ONLY 3 kids performing Titanic at that recital, spaced far apart. Yikes!
Sometimes I marvel at the patience of parents. Since then, I have tried very hard not to let that happen again!
Dana at Music-for-Music-Teachers.com
Leigh, that is funny!
My first recital, I insisted on making homemade cinnamon rolls for a good size crowd since I was sharing the recital with another teacher. My mom pitched in to help. She vows she will never do that again. I should have known better than to drag my mom, who already endured years of my lessons, to make 5 dozen rolls for me as well.
I have weird stuff, like some students might end up playing two pieces by the same composer, or both pieces start with the same letter. No one probably notices but me, though.
I am so happy to hear that it is not always easy to hold a first recital. I would like very much to have my first. I am not sure what is the best time because I do not have very many students, yet I want them to be proud of the work that they have done. I really like the idea that Mindy mentioned about sharing a recital with another teacher. Has anyone else tried this idea? If so, is there any advice that you could give?
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